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They’re not, though!

Behind the lavish gifts and declarations of "love" lies a dangerous form of emotional abuse.

Some of these miiiight surprise you, but they can be surprisingly sexy in the right context.

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Because (repeat after us) gender is a spectrum, and everyone deserves to be seen for who they are.

Hello and welcome to your guide to two of the most popular dating apps in the game.

Your ticket off the dating app carousel has arrived.

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Welcome to our official breakdown of these two dating app mainstays.

Allow the experts to explain

Looking for love—but, like, actually though? You can find it online, we swear.

Short answer: Yes. But, as is always true when it comes to putting something new down there, there’s much to consider!

Yep, it’s totally possible. Allow the experts to show you how it’s done.

Allow the experts to help you navigate this one.

Time to slow things waaay down in the bedroom.

An app for every sextual situation.

There’s a lot more to it than just snapping a shot of your schlong, okay?

Yes, it’s an identity, but it also conveys a sense of community.

Although, obvs, you can use these on folks of any gender!

The rainbow banner is a classic, of course, but there’s sooo much more to know.

Experts weigh in on the often-misunderstood sexuality labels, and what the difference between them *actually* looks like.

“You’re damned if you do and you’re damned if you don’t, so you might as well just do whatever you want.”

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Short answer: It’s complicated.

More than just labels, the D/s power exchange is basically the heart of it all.

Time to curl up with some popcorn (and your vibrator) and explore the very best erotic cinema has to offer.

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